And maybe the one true thing is that together we are so much more than when we are apart
After 5 months of not seeing each other, we have finally reunited. We met up and flew to California. I traveled more than 10 hours straight flight from London and I was so excited that I did not manage to even get a nap on the plane. We planned this holiday for four months already so everything is all set.
We have been in LDR for more than 3 years already so everytime we see each other somewhere we make sure that is going to be a memorable one. It doesn’t matter what we plan to do, the main thing is we will be reunited again after being separated for 5 months. Our first hug and first kiss after we see each other were so magical that we both forgot all the pain of being far away from each other all the time.
Let me share to you my tips on how we made our reunions unforgettable.
1. We plan everything ahead- We planned this holiday four months ago. Planning ahead saved our time and money. I am more organized on planning our itinerary but she is good at handling money, so we are a match made in heaven. What we did was, I researched all the places we wanted to go to, my partner searched for good deals, did the bookings and reservations. Planning everything ahead made our trip very easy and relax.
TIPS: Planning a perfect holiday with your LDR partner requires putting in some effort. You and your partner should work together to find the best holiday. Communication is the key here and make sure you are in the same boat.
2. We spent alone time before meeting other people- This holiday was not just about us, we also both planned to meet some of our relatives and friends. But before meeting them, we both agreed to spend our first couple days together by ourselves.
TIPS: Again, communication and compromise are very important. If you and your partner want to meet other people whilst on holiday, make sure you both know it and agreed on it. But it is important to spend your alone time before anything else. Make the most time of it and savor every second together that you both waited for a long time.
3. We captured and documented every moment- We both like taking photos and documenting memories. I bring my mirrorless camera and tripod everytime I go away with her. I take and collect photos for my blog and social media accounts. I may not be a professional photographer but I know the basics. Sometimes we both feel awkward taking photos of ourselves in a busy area, but we are tourists so we don’t care.
TIPS: Plan the composition and check the light. Sometimes candid photos are the best. Using a tripod is a good idea, to take a nice couple photos. However, if you don’t like carrying a chunky tripod, you can also use a selfie-stick, ask someone to take your photo (more awkward), or maybe you can afford to hire a professional photographer.
4. We both planned gifts for each other- We prefer to give and share memories rather than material things. But my partner gives me health supplements as presents. I gave her some stuff that she wants from London.
TIPS: It is better to ask your partner if she/he wants a particular present, but if you really know what he/she wants, then surprise them.
5. We tried to do different things that we both haven’t done before- We both like to explore and discover new things when we are on a holiday. We have our own different ways of being adventurous. But sometimes we both try to push or encourage each other to try different things that we haven’t done before.
TIPS: As part of planning, research what kind of activities you can both do. One of you might like it and not. Try to encourage each other that it’s going to be fun doing that activity together.
6. We became more open and honest with each other- It is possible to discover new things about each other whilst you are both on holiday. And if there is any issue or something that holds you back from your relationship, it is the right time to discuss it while you are together.
TIPS: Better to be honest and more open in person with your LDR partner. However, be aware of your reactions. One might get upset and disappointed, make sure you both settle any issues and try not to ruin your holiday.
There you go!!! These are my tips to have an unforgettable holiday with your LDR partner. My partner and I are planning our next adventure, I will surely share it again with you guys.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog post, until next time…
Love,
Rainne xxx
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